In the world, there is such a huge element of chaos.
One time I took grayhound bus to an airport, and wasn't aware of their first come, first serve policy. I had reserved tickets but was the last person in line and was turned away because all seats were taken.
Next bus about 1 hour later.
I take it, and arrive late for the flight, with traffic problem contributing to the delay.
Next flight was a full 24 hours later.
I wait in the airport all that time. To make this more aggravating, the plane I was late for was also very late but they wouldn't let me board it because the gates were closed or something (I think they sold my seat to someone else)
It's very frustrating to seat in the terminal with a ticket in hand, watching the plane sitting outside and unable to get on it.
It's like fate was telling me - No, you are not gonna get on this flight. I called managers - complained - to no avail.
(This is not a "Final Destination" story BTW)
I hang out there for a day and get on the next flight, same time, next day. (Didn't want to pay $90 for a hotel) One day at a terminal is a very long day, eating crappy, expensive food and sleeping on the metal benches.
So, I safely get to my destination, breaking lots of plans, affecting lots of schedules, likely affecting the course of history with the ripple effect. All because of my judgment.
Now, this happens all the time. You seek outcome A but get outcome Y due to these elements of chaos. There is no predictability.
Tomorrow, you may get out of bed, and fall down the steps, breaking your neck, or your tire may blow out, causing you to pull over, change it, only have to a sleepy driver drive out of his lane onto the shoulder and hit you, with fatal consequences.
I don't have any plans anymore for anything longer than 1 day, and am not surprised when that doesn't work out. I have a plan B, and often, plan C and have a feeling even that's not enough.
I have this constant feeling that I am not in control of anything, only my behavior, and even that doesn't mean much.
Life is what happens when you have other plans How true that is.
Maybe it's all working to a greater design, and in fact, the outcome of what we see as chaos is a plan and predictability?
Fundamentally, I am unable to answer the original question here, wondering the same thing myself.