Regarding the differing opinions about what is neutral:
What appears neutral is somewhat personal, and very contextual.
For those of using our lights around our homes after dark, which usually have mostly 2700-3000K warm white lighting, somewhere around 4000K is typically perceived as neutral, and this is roughly what most of us in the flashlight community have come to describe as neutral. Also, the Purkinje effect (reduced relative sensitivity of the eye to red at low light intensities) causes us the tint we perceive as neutral to shift to lower color temperatures at low light intensities.
When used in dark shadowed places during daytime, or in situations where there are other high color temperature light sources and higher illumination levels, usually 5000K or slightly above seems more neutral. That's also more likely to be the case even after dark if you're one of the folks who likes daylight tinted light bulbs.
If you want an objective definition, sunlight is somewhere around 5500K, and this color temperature also has it's peak roughly in the middle of the visible spectrum, so there is a spectral balance, too. Rationally speaking, I think that's as good of a definition of neutral as I could offer, but when I or most other people are talking about flashlights, we still usually mean something more like 4000-5000K.