Minimum cutting tooling :
- QCTP PM "kit" =RH and LH cutting tool + straight cutting tool + boring bar+ DCMT/DCGT Inserts or CCGT/CCMT
got it but don't know which inserts I should request
It sounds like you already have a "set".

The best bet is to reach out to Matt and ask him what he sent you. The next best is to decode what you have. That's a bit more tricky.
But first a word to reassure you. You do not NEED to use a specific insert for each type of metal. Some just work a bit better than others. Some give a better surface finish or last longer in certain circumstances. In reality, the humble triangular insert without coating has been used by millions of home shops to do just about everything. The super-duper inserts that Will and Will favor will work really well, but you can still do a good job with a super cheap and basic set like this one:
http://www.shars.com/products/view/2752/12quot_Indexable_Carbide_Turning_Tool_Set which uses triangular inserts for all 5 tools.
Now back to your problem. The main problem is to figure out what size fits your holders. Each holder is designed for a specific shape (match what you have to the carbide depot site) with a specific way to mount (beveled hole, strait hole, no hole, etc) and a specific thickness. Last but most confusing is the "size" which is measured as an "inscribed circle". All of these are on that page that you pointed to at carbide depot.
An inscribed circle is the largest circle that is totally within the outline of the insert. The size is represented in steps of 1/8 inch, so all you need to do is find the largest circle that fits on an insert and convert that to eighths.

I don't have a good way to do that. I have a template for drawing circles that has many circles, so I can lay it on an insert to see what size fits within the outline of the insert. A 1/4 inch inscribed circle is a "2".
The thickness is represented as the number of sixteenths. That's just to confuse the innocent. A 1/4 inch thick insert is a "4".
The clearance angle is the slant on the side. You need a good protractor and a good eye to figure out the angle on a small insert.

There are suggested angles for aluminum, plastics and steel. You can get away with being "close".
The rest of the specifications basically are fine tuning. There's a thread or two here that go into those in detail.
Dan