I just want to thank everyone for their replies. I'm going to avoid the whole ceramic thing.
My Mom already has a set of Henckles (sp?) that came with one of those pull-through-the-roller sharpeners. Would these classify as "high quality stainless" knives. If so, then I'll have to get something else.
Now, about the sharpening thing, is the Spyderco Tri-Angle that txwest mentioned much better than the roller thing? I know it costs a lot more. I never can seem to get a "new knife" edge with that sharpener that came with it or any other sharpener. I'm always wary of using a new knife (like the Chive I purchased after reading these boards - love it) because I know I won't be able to put an edge like that on it again. I have Arkansas stones, that cheesey Lanskey setup, a small diamond "stone", and I just cant get it right. Any assistance on this point would be GREATLY appreciated as I have had this problem for many years...