im 19, and heck, Im STILL not fond of the dark. Dark+Cold gives me the creeps...
I've been interested in astronomy as a hobby since I was a kid. I have absolutely no fear of the dark. There is nothing to be afraid of in the dark, as best I can tell. Indeed, if you leave the cities (where it's just never truly dark) and allow your eyes to become dark adapted, you'd be amazed at how beautiful the stars can be.
I've never actually seen a ghost, so I can't comment on whether or not they are real. I will say that I'm quite interested in people who believe in ghosts.
One of the problems I've noticed with some of them is that they have a very difficult time differentiating between history and urban legend. For example, I found some photos on a local ghost hunting group's website of a house where purportedly a gruesome murder had taken place in the 70's. It was on private property, and they didn't want to reveal the location, just that it was in Dallas. Supposedly if you went into the house, you'd still see some traces of blood on the walls, and if you were foolish enough to try to stay there at night, well, let's just say you'd have a bad experience.
There was just one small problem. I recognized the photos - I'd actually
been to this place in the 70's. And it wasn't a family residence back then - it was a gardening business, and had been since the 50's. (It was a farm before that.) A very small amount of research would've shown this to be the case - 8 hours or less.
During the past year, I've been to three or four places that were purported to be haunted. Nothing happened. (Two of them were restaurants - I had a nice dinner though!
🙂) I spent a couple of nights in a hotel in Jefferson Texas that is widely thought to be haunted. (Indeed, the story goes that Steven Spielberg spent about half of one night in the hotel while looking for a place to set the move "Poltergeist", and became so frightened that he left halfway through the night.) Yeah, nothing happened.
Perhaps I'm offensive to ghosts in some way - they certainly seem to leave me alone! Please note - I'm not trying to say ghosts don't exist, or that people who claim to have seen them haven't seen anything. I have no way of knowing either of those things. I'm simply relating my experiences.