No, you are absolutely not being a scaredy-cat.
Those batteries can and have blown up flashlights. The recent case involving a Pelican had what were probably 2 Surefire batts. If you get a dud or damaged battery, you can have this problem. Think of what would happen if you were holding a light in your mouth and it went "blam."
I was in the same quandary after I read about it. I was getting ready to buy a new light, 2x123. I was wondering if I shouldn't go for something with a different type of battery.
But I think the best solution is to get the light you want AND get a multimeter. (Flashlight freaks like us should have one anyway.) It is super simple to check the short-circuit current before you put in the batteries.
The probabilities of this happening to you are exceedingly low, but if that doesn't make you feel any better (doesn't make me feel better) you can test and be pretty confident in your light's safety.
I went ahead and ordered an A2 (shipped yesterday). Just heed the safety warnings about storage, etc. Not everything was put there by an attorney.
I don't know for certain how much risk is involved with a single batt, but I do know it is greatly reduced. If you have a dud, there is nothing to energize it.
Scott