yalskey
Enlightened
Yalskey ... with your experience and knowledge ......
Can you simply tell rob3rto (the OP) ... if giving his wife a flashlight will protect her from harm ?
His thread title suggests he thinks a blinding torch is needed and will solve the problem.
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Of course, let me speak to the OP. Although I thought I did a pretty good job laying out my overall stance in my couple of posts, maybe I need to be more direct in addressing the OP.
Will buying your wife a really good flashlight make her safer? Well, if that's all you do, than no, it will probably make her less safe due to the false sense of security it instills and the inherent risks that are introduced when a "weapon" is introduced into the scenario.
If your goal is to empower and equip your wife with habits and abilities that mitigate interpersonal violence (i.e. street crime) then simply buying her a flashlight is kind of missing the point and actually making things worse. In the UK there is a self-defense instructor in Bristol (if I'm not mistaken) named Dik Chance. He teaches FAST Defense and FAST Combatives, which is some of the best self-defense training ordinary civilians can get on a short-term training basis (weekend seminar).
His contact Info / website:
http://fastcombatives.com/index.php?option=com_contact&Itemid=3
I personally know from hands-on experience that taking your wife (and yourself for that matter) to a FAST self-defense seminar will do light years more good for her in the long run than just buying her a flashlight for "blinding muggers". Take the money you would spend on a nice new SureFire and take her to a seminar.
If you aren't close to Dik, he will guide you to someone over there that is good... you can trust his advice he's a really good person who know his stuff, and you can bet your life on it, literally. Be careful entering into the world of self-defense training, most of the stuff out there is garbage, and too many salesman with inflated promises will sell you the equivalent of snake-oil.
If you aren't going to take her to a FAST Defense / Combatives seminar, then pick up a copy of "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin De Becker. One of the best books you can invest your time reading on this subject, and it costs 1/10th of a SureFire.
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