Lux, I think your 0.050-0.075 Volt limit is fine, you really can't be too careful, however I think it's being a bit more cautious than necessary.
In Tom's test, his setup had a voltage difference of over 2.00 Volts, not the final recommended maximum of 0.50 Volt. Regardless of the accuracy of the clamp ammeter, the general characteristics of what happened when the cells were paralleled, still applies. The duration of the peak high current, whatever the actual value, was very brief. And, as he mentioned, LiCo cells are comfortable with surges as high as 10C and I really don't see an amperage that high occurring, if the 0.50 Volt differential rule were followed. As for cells with protection circuits, I would think that the surge is so short, that most would not trip and would survive the half second, or so spike. I could be wrong here, as I've certainly never tried it.
Again, I really don't see anyone purposely charging cells that are basically discharged, along with fully charged cells, which is about what you would have to do to get a 0.50 volt difference between cells. That said, I would definitely consider 0.50 Volt as a maximum differential, and a value to best be avoided.
My comment "If the cells are very far off from each other, you would do better to parallel charge them" was considering the fact that the most common hobby chargers used here on the Forum have a maximum discharge current of 100-300mA during balancing. Considering this, parallel charging would be much more suitable for cells that were "very far off" in voltage, as the charger would be limited to a 100-300mAh correction per hour, whereas parallel charging would yield much faster results.
Another point I would like to bring up, is that many here on the Forums believe that because hobby chargers are designed to charge NiCd/NiMh and Li-Ion cells in series, that this is the best way to charge cells. This is not necessarily true. The primary reason hobby chargers are designed to charge cells in series is because in the R/C hobby, cells are usually welded or soldered into "packs". In this situation there is no choice as to how to charge the cells, you can either charge them in series, or charge them in series, and that's it. In our hobby, where we most often use "loose", or individual cells, other means of charging, such as separately, in an independent channel charger, or in parallel for Li-ion cells, often is the better option.
Dave