I'm kind of in the conformal coating camp myself. This is the kind of use it is intended for.
If the board is potted with epoxy, then it's possible to get into all sorts of potential issues with differences in thermal expansion causing damages to fragile components, traces, etc. For example, if epoxy flows underneath a component, cures, and then later expands due to heating.
While epoxy potting is commonly used, proper design & material selection & most importantly, endurance testing, is important.
The conformal coatings I've seen all remain flexible.
MT