I don't have a wife, but my girl friend visit some time. Sometimes she watch TV then i am in front of the computer checking ebay listing, or read some threads. There are times she as me to go over sit togather...well, I kind of have to at that point.
I go over, gave her some sweet kisses, hold her in you arm on the sofa....
but my mind set is actually thinking about the bidding auction....flashlight, knife, sunglasses, camera...(i collect variety of stuff) She see me not talking....will ask me if something bothering me at work? Do i answer honestly, NOooooo....its worse enough to lost a bid, why make it worse?
Item always arrive at office....a place they don't care, they don't judge.
No telling, no problem. My interest got nothing to do with them. No need to listen any lecture, no need to argue or talk about how good those stuff i am purchasing. The truth, they careless about a light that is so bright can lights up a room.
Pointless to let other get involve what i am interested in. That is why the forum is so great. Where we found a space to be honest with our feeling, talking with great people who share the same interests.