ChocolateLab33
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A very close friend of mine who I have known for a very long time used to live with her Mom (much older siblings moved out already) and she moved out about 9-10 years ago to live her own life. Her Mom was very lonely after she left so her sister and brother-in-law started staying at her house. They would stay about every other weekend, then every weekend, then weekends turned to weekdays and now they stay there ALL the time. They have their own house 90 miles away from her that they haven't slept at in over 2 years. When they do go home they go for the day and come right back. Their house is infested with mice from no activity and was even broken into and vandalized years ago because they are never there. Their house is a little shack in the country that is now over-run with weeds, and don't even get me started on how crappy it looks from being so negleted all these years.
The thing is, the sister and bro-in-law are totally taking advantage of the Mother in every way possible. She has basically surrendered her house to these pigs just for the sake of not being alone. The Mom pays for groceries and she pays all the bills and is basically carrying them and they just keep on using her. They don't work either!!! The Mom is 76 years old and she still works because she is in so much debt. The sister is 55 and the bro-in-law is 70. Here's what they do all day: sleep til' at LEAST noon. Get up, sit in the kitchen, smoke cigarettes and cigars, drink coffee, take pills, eat, watch tv, go back to bed about 2 P.M. At around 6 or 7 P.M. they get up and do the same thing then about 10 P.M. they go back to bed. At around 3 A.M. they get up, do the same thing and then by 6 A.M. or so, it's nappy time again. This has been going on for YEARS!!! They are lazy, they don't do anything, they don't clean anything, the house is filthy. The walls are BLACK from all of the cigarette/cigar smoke and the Mom doesn't even smoke!! You could scrape the nicotine off with a knife, that's how gross the house is. I know the Mom is a huge enabler and I have been telling her for years to kick their asses out and regain her house but she won't do it. It makes me sick and I hate them for what they are doing to her. She told me they are going home in a couple of weeks, ya right! They have been saying that for 2 years and even IF they do go home, they will be there less than a week and they will come right back to Mama's to freeload off of her some more. I despise them! I am close enough to the family to tell them off but she has asked me not to and out of respect for her, I have held my tongue but it's getting very difficult to continue to do so.
Thanks for letting me vent!
Any thoughts on this...........?
The thing is, the sister and bro-in-law are totally taking advantage of the Mother in every way possible. She has basically surrendered her house to these pigs just for the sake of not being alone. The Mom pays for groceries and she pays all the bills and is basically carrying them and they just keep on using her. They don't work either!!! The Mom is 76 years old and she still works because she is in so much debt. The sister is 55 and the bro-in-law is 70. Here's what they do all day: sleep til' at LEAST noon. Get up, sit in the kitchen, smoke cigarettes and cigars, drink coffee, take pills, eat, watch tv, go back to bed about 2 P.M. At around 6 or 7 P.M. they get up and do the same thing then about 10 P.M. they go back to bed. At around 3 A.M. they get up, do the same thing and then by 6 A.M. or so, it's nappy time again. This has been going on for YEARS!!! They are lazy, they don't do anything, they don't clean anything, the house is filthy. The walls are BLACK from all of the cigarette/cigar smoke and the Mom doesn't even smoke!! You could scrape the nicotine off with a knife, that's how gross the house is. I know the Mom is a huge enabler and I have been telling her for years to kick their asses out and regain her house but she won't do it. It makes me sick and I hate them for what they are doing to her. She told me they are going home in a couple of weeks, ya right! They have been saying that for 2 years and even IF they do go home, they will be there less than a week and they will come right back to Mama's to freeload off of her some more. I despise them! I am close enough to the family to tell them off but she has asked me not to and out of respect for her, I have held my tongue but it's getting very difficult to continue to do so.
Thanks for letting me vent!
Any thoughts on this...........?