I always thought the
was a good sign for the seller. It was signaling a "no problem" sale. I think it's just someone trying to say "I understand what you are offering for sale, am willing to meet your terms, and am ready to make payment."
With so many people viewing any sale and multiple posts in response, how else can someone indicate their willingness to purchase? And how else would others know when the item is "sold"? Are we to assume that the first person to post a question or a "PM sent" has already purchased it? Or do we just have multiple people all claim the same item, assuming there's only one, and then have the seller try to figure out who had the best claim? Imagine the uproar some people would raise if they weren't the ones picked. And depending on how long before the seller logged back in and posted a confirmation of sale, there could be dozens of offers in the meantime.
Although I can imagine a few instances where you might occasionally have to tell an
or
poster that "Sorry, it already sold via a PM", that would occur a lot less frequently than any alternatives. Personally, when I have ben a Seller, I have been glad to see
. It's a sign of a pretty definite sale. The alternative, question posts and PMs, have usually not resulted in sales. On a recent sale, which I mentioned in another post would be occuring soon, I had about 6-8 PMs requesting one when they were completed. I replied to all those inquiries giving them first dibs before I put the rest up for sale. Only one of those people actually bought an item. If these had been public posts instead of PMs, the other people who actually did buy the items would have thought they were all gone already and may never have bought one. My personal policy is to sell the item to the first person to make a definite commitment to purchase as long as it is followed by payment in a reasonable time frame. Only once have I ever had someone say
and then not make payment, so after several attempts to arrange payment I told them the deal was off and I was offering it back up for sale.
As a buyer, I'm looking for an
as a sign that the item is gone. If I don't see it or something similar, I assume the item is still available and if I am interested I will indicate my willingness to purchase by posting my own
. I don't think I would buy as much stuff if there were no way to tell if it was sold or not. I would hate to have to sit back and wait to see what the response is to a question post or PM to see if the item is taken or not. As a matter of politeness and in order to not confuse or put off other buyers, if I have an alternate offer, I make it via PM. And if somebody else posts an
while I'm still making up my mind, that's the risk I take. Occasionally, I've even been grateful when it happens since I knew I was fixing to spend too much anyway, but some things are almost too goood to resist.