thanks...
You know it seems like some people are miserable and instead of improving their own status, they have a mission in life to make everyone else miserable too. Sometimes with aggressive behavior, and often with passive-aggressive behavior.
If you are stuck with someone like that, who you cannot just leave very easily, for example:
1. A family member
2. A coworker, a worse a supervisor.
3. Your housing complex manager (as is the case with me)
and so on. Then you suffer. They are beyond reason, these miserable people and they enjoy causing pain to others, or being micro-managing control freaks, like in my situation.
I am already making plans to move. Just getting to be too much. I pay them $9,000 a year to be humiliated, and they treat the tenants like delinquent 9th-graders.
At my last job, I had a difficult supervisor. Nothing I did was every right, and he would time my lunch brakes, and call me on cell to make sure I wasn't late when I got off site. He would also go check up on me when I took short 10 min brakes in the brake room.
I also have real difficult people in family. Their behavior alternates between anal-agressive, passive-agressive, and also a lot of guilt-tripping. If you have a christmas party, they will do their best to ruin it, making themselves the center of attention.
Have you seen the movie Misery. I have a family person like that. I try to console myself that I am more happy than they are.
Walking away is ideally the best solution, but sometimes you are forced to be with that person, which can make you feel like you've been dunked in a bucket full of excrement. Typically it's work or family related I would think.