I was born and raised in the Bay Area. It's a great place, but became too crowded, too busy, too competative. As an unencumbered chef, I was free to go anywhere in the world. I seriously considered Costa Rica and Hawaii. Looking back, that would have been a fun adventure, but I know those were not the places for me to settle down and raise a family.
I discovered Montana on my first hunting trip. It's certainly not for everyone, especially those who crave the dynamic diversity of a busy metropolitain area, but it was just what I needed. Ironicly, I was lonely in the Bay Area. I worked all the time to afford my lifestyle at the expense of a life. After moving to Montana, I had time to cultivate friendships while having fun socially. I met my wife and now have a wonderful family which I am priveledged to be able to be home and care for. I could never have done that in the Bay Area where we both would have to be working to afford a home.
There are many wonderful places that are affordable enough to do what I have in Montana. Not many however where you can live on a river, leave the doors unlocked and where everyone's friendly. The drawbacks are lack of diversity, limited cultural opportunities, and it's tough to make a living. Way back when, I made a choice. I could either work hard for the man, make lots of money and vacation anywhere in the world for four weeks out of the year or I could live anywhere in the world and screw the money.
I have no regrets.