Just my 2 cents:
The feel of the Commander in the hand is great. The satin hard chrome is also very nice -- I have never had any problems with it. By contrast, the bead blast finish on both of my BM CQC7s collected rust that was extremely difficult to clean. Otherwise, the QC is a bit disappointing for the price.But Benchmade has become one of my favorite production knives and I own more of them than any other brand.
I do think that the quality of some of the Spydercos for example the Viele plain edge and the Gunting is even better than the Benchmades.
The axis lock is one of my favorite also -- little or no side to side blade play, very smooth and you don't have to get your finger in the way of the closing blade.
Good luck finding a 2002 full size -- some people have waited many months for them.
Maybe you want to try the Super Commander from TAD (that is the latest and does have the 2002 features except BIGGER)?
Did you try Bladeart -- sometimes they have stuff in stock that doesn't make it to their website (that's how I got my AR).