We have been hooking up power at our hunting camp with a small generator using 110 male to male plugs. A tree knocked out the lines years ago. No mains hooked to the box. We got a bigger generator and would like to use a L14-30 to a 3 blade dryer plug. When I wired my house I used a female L14-30 hooked to its own breaker and a male to male plug. With the main off, no dead linesmen and it works fine. With our camp I have the generator cord and am putting the male dryer plug on it. When I am connecting the hots I am fine. Do I not use the ground from the generator or do I tie it to the neutral since they go to the same place in the box? Just confused as what to do with the ground?