how much current can AW AAA lithiums cells provide? maybe just run one of those direct driven? (maybe thats a bad idea, i don't know lithiums too well)
They're lithium-ion, not lithium, but yes, that's probably a bad idea. It
might be viable for short bursts only, but any sort of continuous use (10s of seconds at a time) would be dramatically overloading the cell. Could theoretically be as bad as venting-with-flame, but in practice 10440s abused like that probably just die peacefully after only three or four cycles. .
If you want a AAA-ish sized Li-ion cell that can handle high current, look into the 8mm round li-poly cells used in e-cigarettes; I know hobbyking has bare cells available, rated at 15C discharge.
For 38mm long (smaller than AAA), it's 180mAh, so you could run up to 2.5A; some single AAA lights might be adapted to take a 8x52mm cell, which gets you up to 270mAh, or 4A continuous; and 2xAAA lights could take either two 8x38 (in series or parallel), or one 350mAh 8x75mm cell -- either way handily exceeding the power requirements of a single XM-L and letting you get runtimes over 4 minutes...
An advanced configuration for a 2xAAA would be 1 8x38 and 1 8x52 in
parallel (not series -- that's how you make a bomb) to get 450mAh, but I wouldn't recommend it -- you're probably better using the extra space for an AMC7135 driver and a quick-connector so you can easily remove the battery and charge it.