install Your "beam"
as it is the one and only useful way:
pointing slightly down!
the upper end of the beam should be somewhere 30-50 meters in front of Your bike
(depending on Your speed, on the lights around, on Your imagination of "blinding" oncoming traffic, ...)
then noone gets the main beam and there is no problem at all
but stay serious:
any BIKE with a standard bike light (= non selfbuilt supersun model) that would "blind"
me - when sitting in the car - gets a 110 Watt high beam flash. That will immediately inform the biker to please reduce the output, or point the beam more down, or whatever ... at least the effect of his/her light is neglectible then.
Whoever driver is "blinded" by an 800 Lumen led/halo portable light - even when it is mounted incorrectly - has to
1st: stop the damned car and
2nd: give back the license and go by food