Minimoog
Enlightened
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- Jan 13, 2005
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I am sometimes asked on an after work meal or evening family get together for some food but I rarely like attending, which is disappointing to me. I have just come back from a meal with friends and I realise why I try to put off attending.
On the face of it it sounds great - a get together, food, chat and laughs. But the reality always seems to fall short and I am glad to get away. This evening I noted the following as I tried to work out why it is not my scene when it sounds so good when arranging...
On the plus side:
1. Good food and an open fire in the pub/restaurants.
2. Real ales and friendly service.
3. Get to see friends.
On the negative side:
1. Noise - the 'chatter' builds as the places fill to end up at an ear splitting level of people almost shouting. No hope of a conversation, just shouted short phrases. This is my biggest bugbear, as what is the point of meeting if I end up in silence whilst others bellow over each other to be heard. I often have to wait to when we leave to say what I wanted.
2. Swearing - I'm not into swearing in such places so other people cussing liberally and loudly jars with me.
3. Dogs - I like dogs but why are there so many dogs in restaurants in the evenings? I counted 7 this evening and they bark loudly as they scuffle with each other and pester to get at our food on the table. One person fell over one dog and went flying.
4. Live music. Any live music at a meet WILL be at an even higher ear splitting level than the talking, plus the talking is even louder than usual to get over the music.
5. Too late. After a long working week I am tired and after about 10 PM I really want my bed...
6. Drinking for fun. I love a beer or two but I don't go out of my way to drink and all the noise ends up making me fed up with drinking and being there.
So do you do evenings out? Do you find them a pleasure or a chore?
My ideal evening out is a walk around the harbour and seeing the boats moving on the changing tide or over the moonlit fields to see the stars and hear the owls and feel the chill of the night air on my skin, but that is no good I am told - and it certainly is nowhere as popular as the above as the paths are always empty.
On the face of it it sounds great - a get together, food, chat and laughs. But the reality always seems to fall short and I am glad to get away. This evening I noted the following as I tried to work out why it is not my scene when it sounds so good when arranging...
On the plus side:
1. Good food and an open fire in the pub/restaurants.
2. Real ales and friendly service.
3. Get to see friends.
On the negative side:
1. Noise - the 'chatter' builds as the places fill to end up at an ear splitting level of people almost shouting. No hope of a conversation, just shouted short phrases. This is my biggest bugbear, as what is the point of meeting if I end up in silence whilst others bellow over each other to be heard. I often have to wait to when we leave to say what I wanted.
2. Swearing - I'm not into swearing in such places so other people cussing liberally and loudly jars with me.
3. Dogs - I like dogs but why are there so many dogs in restaurants in the evenings? I counted 7 this evening and they bark loudly as they scuffle with each other and pester to get at our food on the table. One person fell over one dog and went flying.
4. Live music. Any live music at a meet WILL be at an even higher ear splitting level than the talking, plus the talking is even louder than usual to get over the music.
5. Too late. After a long working week I am tired and after about 10 PM I really want my bed...
6. Drinking for fun. I love a beer or two but I don't go out of my way to drink and all the noise ends up making me fed up with drinking and being there.
So do you do evenings out? Do you find them a pleasure or a chore?
My ideal evening out is a walk around the harbour and seeing the boats moving on the changing tide or over the moonlit fields to see the stars and hear the owls and feel the chill of the night air on my skin, but that is no good I am told - and it certainly is nowhere as popular as the above as the paths are always empty.