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Start taking ballroom dance lessons... Women LOVE men who WILL dance.
[/ QUOTE ] Certainly some truth there, although I'm not sure about the ballroom. If you want to dance with lots of women at once, then folk dancing and ceilidhs are more the way to go. Then there's tango, which has been described as "sex as a form of dance".
My longest lasting relationships have all begun as friendships formed in a wider social context, usually in the pub with co-workers.
Gay is not the easy way. I'm not gay myself, but I have spent some time working in theatres and have seen far more trauma, jealousy and bitching in gay relationships than in straight ones.
Have you tried the singles columns ?...
Wanted: SWF for honest, regular guy. Shy, but with good sense of humour. Should ideally be outdoor type with an interest in flashlights and ostriches /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif
Good luck Raggie, if anybody deserves a soulmate it's you.