Re: \" it\'s just a flashlight \"
I know what you're talking about. I posted a similar thread in the cafe: "They aren't just lights" but it actually turned into a bad train wreck for some reason. Probably because there are two sides to the issue. One is that if you are treating flashlights as objects, the ownership of which will give you happiness, and treat them as if they were as important as, say, your wife or your friends, ...well, then that is not healthy and will not bring you happiness, and yes, someone can say to you (with good reason) "look buddy, they're just flashlights, you know?"
However, if flashlights and all things related to them are a hobby to you, a craft, and a source of wonder and appreciation, ...well, then it really is brutish and stupid for someone to say "Hey man, they're only flashlights. Get a grip. $200 for THAT?! You must be insane!"
Because in this latter case, they are trying to demean your hobby and your interest and tell you what is and isn't a smart way to spend your own money. And that's not right! We all understand that here. Flashlights are a great hobby and they're useful and fun to boot. And it's such a neat idea: a portable source of LIGHT. How cool is that?