idleprocess, the formula for a parabola is y=x^2/4f, where f is the focal length (nominally, the distance from base of parabola to the center of filament). You can do this fairly easily with an Excel spreadsheet.
edit: the units are up to you (mm, inches....) but it doesn't matter to the curve. That is, a parabola with a focal length of 4 inches will look the same as one with a focal length of 4 mm, it will just be a heck of a lot bigger! In practical terms for flashlights, the focal length will influence the "depth" of the parabola. Having a shorter focal length will give you a deeper parabola for any given head diameter.