[ QUOTE ]
Leeoniya said:
i'm not going to go into the speech about how many people in this town dont know what real work is....like the teenagers who work for the money which they use to buy drugs and party while their parents support them, buy them new Lexus SUVs, pay their gas, car insurance, food, housing, cell phones, and vacations. it's sad to see them introduced to real life at the age of 25 when they're fresh out of college with no experience, no idea if what they just spent 4 years learning is what they actually want to do, and no concept of the value of money.
lots of people i talk to around here say i'm jealous because i dont have that. but i'm not sure what they mean when i pay for everything i own, no one has leverage over me, and i can still afford to buy $150 flashlights /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif, $250 cameras, $150 kites, take my girlfriend out every other day, continuously build up my business, support about 10 hobbies, and travel like there's no tomorrow. so yeah, it's obviously jealousy. eh. too much ranting, but it had to be done. cheapest free therapy ever..lol.
Leon.
[/ QUOTE ]
Leon,
I remember when I was a young Marine and I was selected to become a recruiter (gah, what a nightmare) and I recruited Glenview North and Glenview South (Northbrook and Glenview), back in 1994.
I remember young kids being spoiled absolutely rotten by their parents, which continued up through high school, when most in fact were given fancy new cars. In fact, when I parked, I drove around looking for the parking lot with the better cars, as I was told to park in the teacher's lot. Some monitor came up to me I needed to park in the teachers parking lot not the student's lot. He told me where it was, and it looked alot more rundown (cars) as compared to the student lot. And at that time, the teachers were paid amongst the highest in the state, with salaries in the 80k range, and those with Masters approaching 100k. Yet most couldn't afford to live in town.
Over time, I was shocked to find that most the students were basically raised on MTV, with the majority of both parents working until 7 or 8 at night, so they could be "rich". It made my hours run late into the night, because I often talked with parents, and I had to wait for them to get home.
Anyhow, as it turned out, most the folks I got to join from that area ended up having bachelors/masters degrees, since they did what their parents wanted most their life (in many cases, parents pulling their weight to get their kids jobs), and the kids found themselves highly unhappy with their jobs/life.
But it was a good experience, as due to all the educated folks I put in the Marines enlisted, I was selected to become a member of the Congressional Officer Commissioning Team, where I spent most my time selecting the highest quality folks to become Military Pilots, Lawyers, and such. It was a bit strange, as thousands were turned away, selecting the very best from places like Lake Forest College, Univerisity of Chicago, and Notre Dame.
Anyhow, to get back on your topic, the folks and families out your way seem to be some of the most unhappy folks I ever met in my entire life... and I even met folks in the first Gulf war that were happier, even though the were the "enemy"...
So yeah, I see your point.