Tom_Dunn
Newly Enlightened
Most mornings I, and another group of lazy locals frequent a little restaurant/bar up the road a bit, Drake's Inn. Super little place. One of this group of morning regulars is a rertired lawyer, and he aggravates the heck outta me. He's not trying to, I just find him abrasive. Always have.
This group of folks, we always sit at the bar for breakfast(NOT a liquid breakfast, eggs and bacon, ya know?) leaving the tables for tourists and family groups. Every morning that lawyer SOB has to blow his nose while sitting there with people on either side of him.
In the first place, I consider it RUDE as hell! When there are people eating near-by, as is generally the case, all the moreso. The mens room is right there!!! Very few things really set me off but, even if I'm at a distance from him, I have to resist the urge to go down and snatch him right off the stool! He's a retired PD from Philadelphia, never married, lives with his mother in a big house on the lake, you would think he'd know better! He is obviously a well-educated, polished man.
Nothing like having pretty little Paula Drake put a nice plate of breakfast chow in front of ya and just as you are diving in, this bozo has to go honking on his beak. Using, of course, a napkin that he leaves behind. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif
This might seem like small 'taters, but I'm going to lose it on him some morning. I think somebody should say something to him.
The question is, should it be the person serving the bar, or the owner, or would a customer be in the right speaking up? Like ME for instance.
I think the owner should say something personally. Consider that it is the responsibility of the person serving to monitor the behavior of the drinkers that inhabit the place later in the day. No cursing, yelling, slobbering, or agravating other people allowed, it's a family kind of joint.
The person serving would be more likely to say something by taking him quietly aside. A customer would be more likely, I think, to "go off" on him!
Does not common courtesy and manners dictate that the restroom, or outside, is a more appropiate place?
Thanks for listening, this is bugging me a lot more than it should perhaps! I find this behavior disgusting wherever it occurs, ot just with this one guy in this one situation.
This group of folks, we always sit at the bar for breakfast(NOT a liquid breakfast, eggs and bacon, ya know?) leaving the tables for tourists and family groups. Every morning that lawyer SOB has to blow his nose while sitting there with people on either side of him.
In the first place, I consider it RUDE as hell! When there are people eating near-by, as is generally the case, all the moreso. The mens room is right there!!! Very few things really set me off but, even if I'm at a distance from him, I have to resist the urge to go down and snatch him right off the stool! He's a retired PD from Philadelphia, never married, lives with his mother in a big house on the lake, you would think he'd know better! He is obviously a well-educated, polished man.
Nothing like having pretty little Paula Drake put a nice plate of breakfast chow in front of ya and just as you are diving in, this bozo has to go honking on his beak. Using, of course, a napkin that he leaves behind. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif
This might seem like small 'taters, but I'm going to lose it on him some morning. I think somebody should say something to him.
The question is, should it be the person serving the bar, or the owner, or would a customer be in the right speaking up? Like ME for instance.
I think the owner should say something personally. Consider that it is the responsibility of the person serving to monitor the behavior of the drinkers that inhabit the place later in the day. No cursing, yelling, slobbering, or agravating other people allowed, it's a family kind of joint.
The person serving would be more likely to say something by taking him quietly aside. A customer would be more likely, I think, to "go off" on him!
Does not common courtesy and manners dictate that the restroom, or outside, is a more appropiate place?
Thanks for listening, this is bugging me a lot more than it should perhaps! I find this behavior disgusting wherever it occurs, ot just with this one guy in this one situation.