I met a whole bunch at Photon Fest 3! Of course, that was through arangement on CPF.
The only independant (not someone I introduced to lights) flashaholic I have met is a friend of my parents. I'd say he's in his early fifties and has been into incans and HID for a while now- we found out about our common interest at a party my parents were having. I showed him my LEDs and he was impressed! For his birthday, his wife called me to get advice but I wasn't home. I called her back but he answered so I had to lie to him and get her on the phone. She needed a gift for the next day! Clearly, I couldn't recommend a mail-order specialty, so, being that there was a Sharper Image near her and knowing he was into throw, I recommended an XO3; he loved it! I told him about CPF, but I'm not sure if he's checked it out.