I wouldn't personally recommend you buy 18650s from Amazon. Not because they are more likely to be fake, but because they are simply more expensive. Even when you take shipping into account, you will pay more on Amazon for good cells.
I'd recommend Mountain Electronics or Illumination Supply in the USA. They have tons of options for cells, they don't sell junk, they have a presence on CPF, they have good customer service and fast shipping, and they are cheaper. What's not to like?
Pretty much any quality charger is safe enough. They aren't that complex, and if you charge when you are around, nothing to worry about even in the worst case. The Xtar VP2 and Nitecore D4 are my current favorites. VP2 is better if you have only a few cells, and only li-ion. The D4 does lithium-ion and NIMH, and has a couple extra bays. Both are simple to use, have good charge algorithms, digital readouts so you can keep track of progress, and multiple charging options.