You're on a
flashlight forum, something the general public cannot conceive of.
I'm fine with consumer preference when their choices don't directly negatively impact me ala
Jefferson. However as these situations involve tons of mass moving at highway speeds, individual choice does indeed have impact on others as borne out in accident, injury, and fatality figures year after year.
Greater mass and larger physical dimensions
generally favor the larger vehicle in such contests in an abstract big picture sense. But it's one of many factors and often dwarfed by
safety design factors. And where does the zero-sum game end - when we're all in like-size / mass vehicles at the practical limits of our infrastructure?
Under-looked in the
bigger vehicle safer trope is that as a consequence of their additional mass bigger vehicles carry more kinetic energy meaning more damage in a crash and more difficulty controlling them under exigent circumstances.