I've been noticing more and more as i get older that the holidays seem to be more stressful and less enjoyable. I find that most of my time is spent arranging flights, fighting traffic, paying bills, dealing with emotional family members, and eating too much. Not to sound too depressing or anything but lately I've been wondering what ever happened to that excitement and anticipation of the holiday season. I thought it was a time to relax and enjoy time with family but for the last 7 years or so, and especially after i turned 30, it hasn't been very much fun. I find my number one priority isn't family, traveling, and fun, but rent, bills, and career. Maybe its because i'm not more settled financially, don't own a home, and other reasons. But its not just me. I've noticed most of my friends, especially the ones with children, are completely crazy this time of year. Aside from getting together with friends, which also seems to be a lot of work, the holidays just don't seem to be holidays anymore. More like "can't wait until the day after new years." I hope this doesn't sound depressing because i actually love this time of year. It just seems I'm not able to enjoy it very much. Anyone else feel this way?