Catman,
Here is my 2 cents worth of advice.
(First, let me state that I don't know how old you are or whether or not this is your first marriage.)
So, this is my advice. When you are exchanging vows and you your are asked to repeat the words "and foresaking all others", remember those the most.
What I mean is, after you are married and after everyone is finished doting on you and congradulating you, and when real life sets in, remember those words. Don't compare your marriage to any of your friends or your parents or anyone else. Don't compare the things that your wife does to any other wives that you may know (such as your friend's wives). Foresake them all. Just concentrate on you and your wife and the relationship that you have built together. Don't feel like you have to compare yourself to anyone else. Don't feel like you have to be on a schedule to (pick one): reach a certain career point, buy a house, have a child, etc.
If you look around and see someone else living their life different from you, so be it. But don't compare theirs to yours. And, whatever you do, don't ever bring it up as a point to your wife. "Well, the next door neighbors already have a new pool, where is ours?" Things like that will only cause resentment, frustration, confustion, and doubt. None of those things are healthy for a marriage. What you do from now on out is your own, and you should not try to model your marriage around anyone else.
Oh, also, on a side note, try to keep the flashlight buying to a minimum. She will thank you for it. Besides, just think of all the fun stuff you will need, like curtains, and new sheets and bed pillows, glasses and silverware, dishes, cookware, and stuff like that. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/icon23.gif