Kapton tape is your ideal answer. It's designed for high heat, it conducts heat, and it doesn't conduct electricity.
But I've got to say, with no disrespect intended; I think you're mistaken about the heat issue. I use paper around many of my batteries in most of my flashlights, and the heat isn't an issue. The bulk of the heat isn't coming from the cells, it's usually coming from the emitters and being soaked up/dissipated through the body of the flashlight and the cooling fins. Any cell heat is more incidental than anything.
The heat generated by Li-ion cells is
mostly as the chemistry becomes depleted of energy, it ramps up as the voltage goes below 3V if hard discharge continues beyond that level. So you shouldn't be discharging a Li-ion below that voltage anyway. IMR's won't be what is generating the bulk of the heat with a 10W discharge when at a safe level of charge capacity. And the paper won't add much extra heat insulation beyond what the plastic wrapper over the cell already does. (And if it did, it would be preventing the greater heat from the emitter which soaks into the body of the flashlight from transferring into the cells, not the other way around.) It's really a non-issue, scientifically and practically speaking.