I "get" it.
Roth, both of my grandmothers are alive and doing well, thank you very much. /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif
EDIT: Let me elaborate a little bit.
I now realize the shallowness of my post, but I still stand by it...
Let's talk about my grandfather. He died about ten years ago due to complications of heart surgery. He is buried. If somebody were to talk poorly about him, well then go right ahead. Somebody who talks poorly of the dead, is just somebody who is downright disrespectful. I know my grandfather, and no matter what people might say about him, I know who he was. It won't change my view of my grandfather. Now maybe it would be nice for me to come to his defense. But then we're arguing about something that's dead, aren't we? Kinda silly isn't it?
Once something is buried, let's leave it buried. That's how it belongs.