Marlinaholic,
My response is dependent on if the batteries at the following link are the ones which you have:
http://www.dealextreme.com/details.dx/sku.13810
Trying to makes heads or tales of many of the items on this website is no simple matter. Every time I look at this site I can't help thinking of the Adam Sandler SNL sketch "Sabra Shopping Network".
Any of the Li-Ions I have seen using the buck circuit to step the voltage down to 3.2 volts have always either come pre-packaged with a charger, or have recommended charging the batteries only with a specific charger model made by the same manufacturer as the cells. Seeing that there is no such recommendation with these cells; and considering the low 650 mAh capacity rating, I'm fairly certain that the cells in question are LiFePO4s, and as such, should be charged with your UltraFire charger set to
3.0 volts.
There can be no harm in undercharging these batteries. There
could be some risk in overcharging them, the least of it, ruining the batteries. Charge them on the 3.0 volt setting, and then try them in whatever light you bought them for. If they have been incorrectly charged, they are not going to last long at all, as they will be starting out almost dead. If they work well and last any amount of time over say 15 minutes, then 3.0 volts is the correct setting for them.
If they don't, then you can try charging them at the 3.7 volt setting. I would do this outside away from anything flammable, and would not touch them while charging, or for 10-15 minutes after charging. Then I'd check them with a multimeter (if you have one), and if they are over 4.3 volts, this probably wasn't the correct choice either. You can then surmise that they probably needed the Soshine charger; but as for which one, I have no idea. There are too many models on eBay, and no real differentiation between any of them.
Probably things will work out well with the 3.0 volt setting. If they don't, I think you're best option is to go with either of the following choices.
Option 1 works with your existing charger:
http://www.cpfmarketplace.com/mp/showthread.php?t=125353
Option 2 comes with the proper charger:
http://www.batteryjunction.com/4parc390reli.html