As a road cyclist myself I take visibility seriously tho the yellow construction vest really really looks... .. :sick2: unless you work in construction and wear that while riding. Granted you WILL get seen but you will get some interesting looks. I know. I tried that on before. Tho better to arrive alive then dead but sometimes you have to balance style with safety.
If the reflective vest, armbands, helmet reflective tape and legbands give you a lot of flack you might want to swing by a college and ask where thier fashion design department is and ask any of the guys or girls working there explaining your issue and wanting to mod what you have right now (ie. riding jacket/pants) with some reflective trim in a stylish design pattern. I'm sure someone there will point you to the right person who can sew and can design as well. It helps the students with thier work by being a real world customer coming in with some ideas of your own and allows the students to have some hands on as well with your gear. Granted they won't get marks for it but I'm sure you can work out some payment or exchange of goods in return for thier help.
You may want to take a design out of the top first four jackets here in the cycling area and have those reflective patterns modded to your jacket.
http://www.mec.ca/Products/product_...older_id=2534374302692343&bmUID=1209355162601
A legband would be also a good option for 360 coverage and side coverage.
http://www.mec.ca/Products/product_...older_id=2534374302693017&bmUID=1209355259800
For the helmet you can look for some invisible reflective tape which in the day it looks invisible but at night if someone shines a light at you, you will reflect back if the driver is directly behind you or at the right angle. It's good safety and gives something out of the ordinary for the driver to see.
This product is a tail light that runs off 2 x AAA and highly regarded in the cycling world. It is bright and has a very unique flash-flash-BIG BRIGHT FLASH-flash-flash-repeat as with steady mode which will catch the drivers attentions.
http://www.mec.ca/Products/product_...older_id=2534374302692895&bmUID=1209355407070
Some bike commuters attach this to the back of thier helmets. I don't see why you can't do that with your helmet if you want to. That way while you're riding the scooter anyone coming your way will see the light at eye to above-eye level to it's in thier face that they know you're there.
If you really want to wake up the guy behind you and want to go overkill to make sure they wake up behind you then attach this
www.dinottelighting.com -> photography -> that red tail light runs off 4 x AA. Attach that to the helmet and aim it backwards and and set it to either blink (high power blink-1sec pause-repeat) or flash mode (high power flash-light on low mode-repeat). Or if you really want to be anal set it to strobe mode (high power flash-high power flash- high power flash-low mode-repeat) whih has a cop/ambulance light effect. I'm sure people will slow down and take notice and drive at safety speeds then. :naughty:
Also check out Nite-Ize products. They have reflective arm/leg band that takes I think CR2032 watch-coin batteries which you can buy from
www.dealextreme.com (no affliation to them then then bought a few times and happy with thier items) or Ebay for say a 10pack of batteries. Keep 2 x CR2032 (weighs next to nothing) on you in the pocket or wallet then you'll be good to go. Turn the blinking arm/leg band while you're riding and you'll have more night visibility.
Hope that helps some.
PS. The Dinotte tail light will light up signs with a red glow 3 blocks away at night. Guess how I know?
:naughty: It's a good light. IMHO worth the amount normally but better if you get it on sale.