I believe auto grease is petroleum based which is bad for o-rings. Use only 100% lithium grease. You can get it at dive shops or also hardware stores. It comes in small plastic colored containers or in tubes in the plumbing section.
I was using the search function, appearently the best stuff is nyogel. But, if I only wanted to use 1 type of lube on both the o-ring and screw, which one do I buy?