Not to go into too much detail,
but...
Basically I have a job offer at a company near Norfolk. Problem? Away from friends/family. Next problem? My GF isn't sure she'll be able to keep her job if we move. Her work prospects in the short term don't look too good. Now, I think I could earn quite a bit more money (especially in the long term) with this company than I probably could in Pa. They made me, what I feel is, a good offer. The benefits are pretty outstanding for an entry level position.
I am waiting to hear back from a second company, in Pa, this Monday. This is also the deadline for my existing offer. Now, I have no expectation of the second company coming close to the offer from the company in Virginia, but the cost of living is a lot lower, etc. I just feel, overall, it would be a much better career move to go to Virginia and take the offer. Problem is, I don't think this is what my GF wants and will probably make her pretty miserable for a few years until she finds the job she wants. She already changed her life for me once, I feel very bad asking her to do it again when I could maybe take a slightly lower offer and stay in Pa. In addition, because it will be difficult to coordinate 2 jobs, I couldn't simply pick up and leave if I decide this wasn't what I really wanted to do. Complications.
I just feel the potential to learn a lot, make a good amount of money AND advance my career is strong in Va. Plus, you know, the beach
Anyone have any much needed words of wisdom for me?
The short of it is:
-2 completely different companies. Industrial vs Commercial Manufacturing
-Big difference in compensation/benefits, some different in cost of living
-Va vs Pa
-GF happiness
-Pa=family/friends
-Va=career advancement and 'nicer' weather
Uhhh....help? I need some guidance.