I think it may be perception partially (and I am sorry to the OP for a digression in the conversation, but the Linger Special was one of the possibilities on his list) but I think it is also reality and the way light travels. With a pure flood beam you are okay when everything is within about the same distance from the light - but dimishes by a factor of a sqaure of the distance as objects are at different distances. So if I reference an object at 5 feet as 100% brightness, an object 10 feet (twice the distance) is 4 time dimmer, at 15 feet (three times distance) it is 9 times dimmer, at 20 feet it's 16 times dimmer, you get the idea.
This phenomenon is something I actually find this very disctracting with a pure flood beam because as you shine the light into, say a back yard, the stuff up close shines really brightly and overwhelmes your eyesight from being able to adjust to the things which are further away and 4, 9, 16, 25, etc time dimmer.
Overall I prefer a beam with a spot because it can push out much farther and when it does the close-up foreground illuminated by the spill tends to be much closer in brightness to the background being illuminated by the diminishing brightness of the spot. Although not at bright I find the XP-G in the right reflector does this even better than SST-50 or SST-90 and makes the XPG almost just as functional as the SST lights.