Hello CPF. I had posted in Febuary about my Dad passing away and how difficult it was/is. I am not over it yet and today about 12:30pm my Mother passed away as well, my head is spinning. Mom hadn't been feeling well and we got her to go in and get checked out. She had a severe case of eczema in her legs and was going to get that checked out. When they initially checked her out they discovered she also had atrial flutter and severe obstructive sleep apnea as well. She went from the hospital to a care center and back to the hospital. Her condition never really did improve and she filled with fluid and lost blood pressure last night suddenly. I didn't get to talk with her very much as she had to wear a CPAP mask most of the time, her breath just simply vanished. I've never seen anything like it. She was intubated twice as well. I went in her room this morning and told her if she wanted to fight we would fight with her, but if she wanted to be with Dad I understood and that she should go and that I and my siblings would be okay. About 9 hours later she was gone. We followed her DNR and after about 10 minutes that was it. I live/lived with my Mom and am presently unemployed as well. I am absolutely reeling right now, WOW, I have never felt this way in my life. This past 5 weeks have been a blur and now this. I do not know if I can attend the viewing/funeral the way I am feeling right now, the wounds are too deep. I just wanted to share a little with you all as it helps the grief process along. Cherish your parents always friends, they can be gone very, very quickly ........................:sick2: Please pray for me everyone, I really need it.
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