LOL! I sense some frustration.
I gave you the exact techniques in the videos linked in your other thread here.
I have done at least 100 welds of Titaniums and Elite 2/3A cells using that exact technique, and not ruined a single cell. Flat tops are the way to go for proper soldered contact and straight alignment. You must be using way too much solder to have a short. You must not be removing wrappers like the video shows, to be melting them.
It is true after a few minutes of using the HammerHead, you discover that a little dremel when its cool removes the outer plating cover so you have a conductive solder coated surface. Thereafter, the age old technique of wiping head surface on moist sponge to clean off excells solder works perfectly.
I use the 66/44 0.031" finer solder to tin battery ends after dremel abrasion. After I'm done with a 3, 4, 5, 6 stick length, I either shrink it in some 3mil or 1mil Kapton tape. All of that is shown in the video. I guarantee it works perfectly if you follow it.
Edit: Oh and I always flux the surfaces of abraded battery ends (
I love HN's Superior liquid flux) before pre-tinning both ends of all cells I am going to use (even though this solder has flux core)....then just apply a fresh bit of solder to both sides of hammer before placing between terminal ends in battery jig. If your hammer head is too wide for your batteries, just dremel the POSITIVE end to make a bit smaller, but the one I got from CBP works perfectly for me.
You may be holding it on ends too long before sliding two batteries together. I place hammerhead on POSITIVE terminal of bottom battery, then quickly slide the upper battery down against top of iron, wait no more than 1/2 second--I count "One Thousa" (of "One Thousand one"), pull out iron and quickly slide top down to make joint. I probably wipe the heads of the hammerhead tip on sponge every 3rd solder, and apply fresh solder. Lightly abrade/clean the ends of hammerhead with dremel, and I think you will find your iron issues will go away.
PS.) I feel strange giving you advice after seeing your wonderful YouTube videos which taught me some things I had not been doing the best way. HN also has some nice tips on that link, but many other good sites with tips also. I tried his 60/40 solder, but really prefer this Kester 66/44/.031 flux core that I got with my Hakko 936 station.