For the big boy, in addition to poking around the Modders subforum, take a look at this:
Blaster, the Next Generation: Luminus Phlatlight SSR-90, 1,750 lumens, 13,000 lux
Beamshots on post 16. Note how much brighter compared to a P7 Mag.
Single mode only. You can not dial down the brightness. 3D. 10,000 mAH LSD NiMH recommended.
Pre-sale price $199 + shipping for 1st 25 units (16 sold), at least $100 more later.
Expected ship date 2010 Jan 31 but Elektrolumens is quite famous for missing them.
You are into serious money when you want the brightest and with a certain amount of reliability.
My P7 Mag cost me $139 + shipping. It is the dimmest in the beamshots I mentioned earlier.
BTW for glockboy's 2nd link you need to buy a Surefire P60 body to house the drop-in.
For the little guy consider compromising on the lumens for a smaller size. Such as a Fenix LD01 (1AAA) with a 10440 Li-ion battery as a '2nd loaner'. 90 lumens on 1AAA. 200 lumens on 10440.
Your '1st loaner' is a stock Mag solitaire. 1.4 lumens with a fresh alkaline battery dimming constantly. 11 minutes runtime. Use Dollar Store 'Super Heavy Duty' crap battery.
When the Solitaire has dimmed to the point your buddy complains he can not see properly, hand him the other one.