I finally picked up my Nitecore Defender Infinity today and opened the package tonight. It was actually delivered Tuesday, but I didn't have time to pick up until today and couldn't open till about an hour ago. My first impressions are WOW! I took it apart and it's very well made, chemkoted throughout, smooth threads, good anodizing. The head is a bit lighter than the tail, which is a bit lighter than the body (the tail and body are closer together in color tho). The head is dark grey while the tail and body are really dark grey. The difference isn't huge and it still looks really nice! The clicky is a bit soft, but easy to press. I do wish it could tailstand, but that's a minor issue. Output is great and my stepping up and down of output works perfectly. Right now, I have it set to the lowest low, which is very low, especially with an alkaline. It's comfortable in the hand and all the knurling makes gripping and twisting the head pretty easy. As mentioned previously, the 3-point head does reduce stability when standing on the head, but it's not too bad. The size is pretty small too. Without the strike portion of the bezel and the protruding tailcap, it's similar size to my Jet1 MK1, which is amongst the smallest 1xAA lights. My L1D always felt so much larger than my Jet1 (which is was relatively). I really like the size and feel of the Nitecore DI. It's so much easier to grip than my L1D was also. Output on a 14500 is really bright! Overall, damn I love this light. It will definitely be in my EDC rotation.
EDIT: Played with it a bit more last night and noticed a notable characteristic: When in low and twisting the head to high (tighten head), output stays low for about 0.5s and then turns to high. Also, when in high mode and turning the DI on with the switch, it always starts in low mode for a split second (<<0.5s) and then turns to high. Mine does that reliably, so I'm assuming it's part of its design (how the driver works). I have no problem with it since it reliably gets into the mode I want.
P.S. Regarding 14500s, I have 14500 cells I purchased a while back from e-lectronics.net and they have a nipple, albeit one that protrudes less than the Ultrafire, and they work fine. The nipple definitely seems to aid in preventing gouging into the driver board. Has anyone tried the Trustfires from DX?...I read on DX (from users) that the Trustfires tend to be slightly shorter than the Ultrafires, which may help for the DI.