IsaacHayes
Flashlight Enthusiast
MrBenchmark: That has happend a million times to me. Girls think I'm too nice and fun to hang out with and get serious. Then they come crying to me everytime about thier abusive boyfriends and tell me how wonderfull I am. I hate that. The only thing I can do now is in the future is to be stern and ask them out before they know me too much, so I don't become "their brother"
Santelmo: I find myself attracted to older women too. Reason: they are more mature. They are over thier wild flings. Some girls aren't like that. I guess. I haven't met any of them. All of the "good" girls are taken, usualy by a-holes. I can actually have a conversation with older women. Some are very attractive and look young. But when they find out my age they are no longer intersted. They think I'm 28 or older but look young. I'm 23. I thought surely by now girls that are 23/24 wouldn't act like high-school kids... But until I'm proven wrong....
Lurker: Very good point. You have to throw yourself out there. One time it will eventually work. You'll never know until you try. You may meet a lot of women who aren't the relationship type, but you gotta sift through them. Also some girls may not look like they're interested in you, but when you find out later that they were just intimitaded by you!! Even if you are the most quite guy out there!
A different town too can make all the difference. The girls I see in a normal day are too young, and the older ones at the "bars" are the same ones that are there every time. My town has the worst ratio of men to women I swear. A place can be packed, and there will be 10 women out of 200 people. You litterally do have to get into a fight to talk to a girl here.
I'm going to try to move to the college town 20mins away from here. So many people, so much more nice. Ratio is in the guys favor. ALL the girls look like models, and are down to earth, not stuck up and talk to you! They don't know anyone up there and are nice. My town is very "clicky" and if they don't know you, they don't talk to you.
Good luck to everyone!!! I've tried to be hopefull but always have doubts. I just hope I'm proved wrong someday, that will be a nice surprise! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif
Santelmo: I find myself attracted to older women too. Reason: they are more mature. They are over thier wild flings. Some girls aren't like that. I guess. I haven't met any of them. All of the "good" girls are taken, usualy by a-holes. I can actually have a conversation with older women. Some are very attractive and look young. But when they find out my age they are no longer intersted. They think I'm 28 or older but look young. I'm 23. I thought surely by now girls that are 23/24 wouldn't act like high-school kids... But until I'm proven wrong....
Lurker: Very good point. You have to throw yourself out there. One time it will eventually work. You'll never know until you try. You may meet a lot of women who aren't the relationship type, but you gotta sift through them. Also some girls may not look like they're interested in you, but when you find out later that they were just intimitaded by you!! Even if you are the most quite guy out there!
A different town too can make all the difference. The girls I see in a normal day are too young, and the older ones at the "bars" are the same ones that are there every time. My town has the worst ratio of men to women I swear. A place can be packed, and there will be 10 women out of 200 people. You litterally do have to get into a fight to talk to a girl here.
I'm going to try to move to the college town 20mins away from here. So many people, so much more nice. Ratio is in the guys favor. ALL the girls look like models, and are down to earth, not stuck up and talk to you! They don't know anyone up there and are nice. My town is very "clicky" and if they don't know you, they don't talk to you.
Good luck to everyone!!! I've tried to be hopefull but always have doubts. I just hope I'm proved wrong someday, that will be a nice surprise! /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif
