Some quotations from above:
"...And of course, some people will choose to not buy our products because I have personal beliefs and I am prone to "force" them on people. But hey, life is short. "
"If people are offended by you saying that you watched a movie, and encouraged other people to see it, too... let them be offended. The Gospel is an offense by its very nature; talking about it is bound to be, too. "
Okay... do you folks remember in the old show "Green Acres" when Oliver would get into one of his sermonettes, and they would begin to play the national anthem in the background? I always thought those scenes were funny. Anyway, cue the music.
First, I'll try to be succinct.
Second, not everyone will agree with me.
Third, if you, dear reader, are one of those people who have a hard time handling the sincerely held, strongly worded, and respectfully tendered convictions from someone who has a different view than your own, then I beg you to skip this post. Please.
Fourth, this post will NOT be about "religion."
Enough of the preface. I commend Peter for seeing the film, and for bringing it up here, trusting the CPF community to be mature enough to handle the fact that he is a person with convictions beyond the manufactuing of excellent lights. However, and this is absolutely not your fault, Peter, I cringe and weep inside at the way we have to be so very delicate and tenuous when we address the subject of our most deeply held beliefs.
If there is any word in America these days that's pure magic, it's the word "offended." What a wonderful way to shut down and shout out those with whom I'm too lazy to dialog. "I'm so offended that you would bring up something like that here! It confirms everything I've ever suspected about your being so narrow-minded and intolerant. Why should I bother to strain myself to respectfully wrap my mind around the values that are important to you-- you obviously don't have the same convictions I do, and are therefore certainly a bigot with a capitol B. No wonder my AAA-premium still has a little blue tint to it!"
Forgive me friends (for I get the feeling that many of you would be wonderful friends if I could but meet you in person), but I thought that one of the greatest strengths of the American Experiment is that we had a diversity of opinion in this country. (Apologies to my non-US readers.) But I feel that I am seeing the strength of our diversity being turned into a paralyzing agent. I'm not a skinhead, but I will defend my neighbor's right to be one, no matter how wrong I'm convinced he is. I may even be offended by his bigotry, but I refuse to give in to the current culteral fad and bully him by trumping up a load of phony indignation to shut him out of my life. Which is EXACTLY what I see going on all around me when religion or civics are mentioned. This is a tragedy. These are important issues.
I'm glad that Peter has some deep convictions. I would be heartbroken if he didn't. I lament, however, that he feels like he has to justify his decision to raise the issue. I know that there are some real instances of "offense" in our society. That's natural. What really bothers me is how very quickly people are to take offense, and how phony this "offense" often turns out to be. It's as if this "offense" is 1) a tool to release us from having to take someone else seriously, and 2) a stick to beat someone with if I want to marginalize him/her. It's a crass attempt to silence the type of discussion that makes America great. This is arrogant intolerance, and it's most often perpetrated by those who claim to praise tolerance the most.
I guess what I'm trying to say, in my pathetic fashion, is: why are we so incredibly threatened by the fact that not everyone sees things the same way? Here's a small example of what I'm referring to. I know a man who had a young admin assisstant. He committted the outrage of telling this woman that God loved her in a deeply personal way. At the time, she was quite moved by what he'd said, having seldom heard anything like that. Later, however, after discussing her employer's comments with some members of her family, she discovered that she was, in fact, "offended." She subsequently quit rudely and without notice, and accused the man of attempting to "proselytize" her. (I know this fellow. Trust me, he treated this woman with profound respect and regard, and was merely expressing to her a truth that he felt would give her comfort.) Not satisfied with these actions, she falsely accused him of sending her pornographic material via the internet and threatened to tell his wife and employer about the porn. (He'd done no such thing.) Gee, I guess she was really offended.
What we have in our society, unfortunately, is a new kind of discrimination: a discrimination of thought. Our elites shut down those with whom they disagree (usually some sort of a traditionalist) and slober all over themselves to praise those who corrupt and coursen our culture. Do you oppose abortion? You must be a woman hater. Do you object to the re-definition of marriage? You are a bigoted homophobe. Do you love Jesus? You must be an intolerant, fundamentalist religious fascist. Do you want to see the Gibson movie? You must be a Jew hater? Do you think that OJ Simpson is a vicious murder? You must hate people of color. Do you feel that Clinton was actually a mediocre president, despite his creditable intellect and impressive political skills? You are obviously a right-wing nut-job. You see? It's a fun game the whole family can play. I'm offended, you're offended. Wouldn't you like to be offended too?
Is this forum the best place to have this sort of a dialog (assuming that rational dialog about these things is even possible anymore)? Maybe. Maybe not. But it's an Arc forum, and Peter is the King here. I've not seen the movie, but I think that it's an important film, just as "Schindler's List" was an important film. If anyone is offended that Peter was personally moved by the movie, and chose to share it here (whether they'll voice their indignation here or not), then they have my pity.
Please forgive the long post. I obviously don't have any strong feelings on the subject. I'll skulk away now.
Fade the music.