It sounds like you soldered the wires to the emitter before it was heatsinked. If that is true, then that means the slug, and through it the die, had nowhere to dissipate heat as quickly as it came in the leads from your soldering iron. The die will not get as hot if the slug is attached to the heatsink before you solder.
Here is how I did it. First I applied an even and thin layer of thermal epoxy to the heat sink using a razor blade. Then I mounted the emitter to the heatsink/riser. I carefully pressed down on the sides of the emitter to thin the epoxy layer. While the epoxy is still wet, I carefully inserted the heatsink into the reflector to check if the LED was centered. If not, then adjust and repeat until it is just right. Don't try this step until you have made clearance on the back of the reflector for the larger MC-E, of course.
Let the epoxy cure for a whole day (if you can possibly wait that long :nana:), and then feed your wires through the heatsink, solder them onto the emitter leads, reinsert the heatsink into the back of the reflector, and use the screws to secure them. You need the wires to be about 24 gauge to have enough flexibility to leave extra length for attaching the screws while still being able to then get the circuit board to seat against the heat sink.