You guys are a hoot. I think you are right, she messed up the example. Not surprised, most college profs only know what they read and little of reality.
I thought this was going to be a conversation about metaphysics or something, trying to blow the candle out by thinking it.
In a stress management class our prof lit one and several students left the room. I didnt see anything relaxing about, i was worried about it setting off the fire system.