What is the problem with having colored headlights? Sure, it looks retarded, but its not your car. I just don't see how having tinted light is going to cause all sorts of accidents, at least compared to those people putting HIDs into halogen reflectors/projectors.
In general using an incandescent lamp with a filter to remove light output is a stupid idea. The very heavily filtered/blue bulbs are producing significatly fewer lumens than the stock headlights -- potentially a problem for the driver being able to see obstacles on the road etc.
Others, such as the Sylvania Silverstars actually match lumen output of stock headlamps, but they accomplish this by running the filament hotter to compensate for the filter lumen loss. This makes the headlights much more prone to failure (and conveniently [for Sylvania] increases the frequency of buying replacement lamps... )
IMO though the main problem with most HID lights is not the color, but rather the sheer intensity. The purple/blue halogens are IMO ridiculous looking, but not particularly bad for glare (many of the lumens have actually been
removed after all) -- worse than standard headlights, but no by much. The HIDs on the other hand I personally find much worse as they are much more intense -- they produce significantly more overall output, and emit their light from a smaller point-source than the filament of an incan lamp. They also have beam distributions that tend to throw much more light to the sides -- increasing the chance of tall vehicles (such as "raised" trucks, or SUVs) hitting drivers of sedans on the opposite side of the road squarely in the eyes with the beam. Also, even the best "cutoff" systems do nothing when a HID-light based vehicle is say cresting a hill that I happen to be climbing (in the opposite direction).
And that is for legitimate OEM HID's. Even lamps that are within legal specifications are still a problem with they're installed in high vehicles, and I happen to be driving a sedan. Illegal HID retrofits are dramatically worse, still.