Catching it early is key, my step-dad, 48 years old died two years ago due to Coolon Ca, they didnt catch it early. It metasisized to his liver, down hill from there. It was a 5 year battle though, my Mom stuck with him all the way!!
I wish the best for you and your loved ones during this time of treatment and recovery....
You will be in my thoughts every time I grab a flashlight....