darkgear, this is ultra-heavy. I will not comment on this because it would take an aproach far too long and too complete no one would ever read. but the direction you are heading seems dark, indeed.
religion: an instrument of control. yes. BUT consider this: something that gives you the ultimate and absolute definition of good and evil, that can forgive your sins (think about that one, and think long!), that tells you what is right and wrong.
all "true believers" have an easy life with that: they do not have to make up their minds about these horrible questions, they do not have to justify their decicions before their own conscience, because theirs is Him. I truly envy you people who still roam the earth with eyes closed ... and you even get your paradise and are relieved of man's greatest fear: death.
so, I think the metaphysical aspect of life was very much easier when religion still dominated our societies with an iron fist, and I understand that those believers want it all back the way it was.
only that those who opened their eyes to reason and truth can never let that happen. the dark ages have passed and our societies are evolving into something new. of course the process of reshaping a whole fundament of mankind is painful and there will be a lot more ugly things to be discussed.
the bottom line is this: if you leave out believes (religion) in this discussion - what you have to do - you should all feel the undeniable force of the arguments of those people opting against "pro-life". note that I do not call them "pro-choice", this would be far too simple.
I feel threatened by movements like "pro-life". they evoke the fear of dark ages of mind and body control beyond anything I could imagine as an acceptable life for all of us.
bernhard
p.s.: that does not mean that they have nothing to say or to contribute here or that I would not honor whichever way they might handle this problem, but DON'T YOU DARE IMPOSING YOUR ETHICS ON ME, as I will not impose mine on you.
no long post without a smilie: