when You have got them to the same "charging state" and finally wired the pack, there is no danger from paralleling them (except for using a protection driver for over-/undervoltage, overcurrent, ...)
get all Your cells, or the BP pack You order and dismount
have them charged (or at least almost charged)
solder wires to + and - of each cell,
solder a resistor
thinking: 20 ohms?) to +,
now connect all - (solder)
and connect all resistors,
leave for 1 week.
that way possible differences in charging state get evened out.
(if You want, You could - after some time - connect a low output bulb or resistor to the whole package to discharge the cells a bit before connecting to final pack and protection circuit. But check with a multimeter that voltage does not go under 3 V, under no circumstances!)
connect the "now same" cells as You wish.