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Best luck!
A public place, that's a great idea.
A public place, that's a great idea.
Sometimes hitting the "back" button will bring your text back up...Diesel_Bomber said:Just typed a long response, hit post, and got "The server is too busy." Lost everything.
TigerhawkT3 said:and CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR MARRIAGE! "majQa'," as Klingons would say (it means "well done").
Lightmeup said:If I'm writing a long post sometimes I'll just do a control C on everything to save it in the buffer in case something screws up. Pretty easy insurance.
Situations like this amaze me. Neither you, your wife, or your MIL have any idea why this guy HATED YOUR GUTS. There was no indication of disapproval by him to you from the second you met him; he just hated you for no apparent reason. And the fact that his wife was clueless about it is even more bizarre. Just unbelieveable.LifeNRA said:In my case I knew that my FIL did not care for me. I still have no idea why he did not like me. Like your case, my mother in law loves me. Unfortunately he died a couple of years ago and my chance to really ask him is gone.
I told him face to face and he just walked away. I was just a 19 year old skinny kid and to be honest I was very nervous. He could have just as easily knocked my head off. But I knew that I had to face him.
He did not come to the wedding and my brother had to give the bride away. So his hatred of me ended up hurting my wife more.
Eventually I just stopped talking to him unless I had to. I never treated him bad and tried not to talk bad of him.
My mother in law did tell me after he died that he had grown to like me and respect me but that he was too proud to tell me. I was glad to hear this.
I wish I knew what the problem was but I don't. I think some people just like being miserable.Lightmeup said:Situations like this amaze me. Neither you, your wife, or your MIL have any idea why this guy HATED YOUR GUTS. There was no indication of disapproval by him to you from the second you met him; he just hated you for no apparent reason. And the fact that his wife was clueless about it is even more bizarre. Just unbelieveable.