Where's Raggie?

[LightChucker]

Re: Where\'s Raggie?

Don't be ashamed to cry. I cried and cried and cried when my mom, dad, and grandma died - right out in public, with no shame at all. The ability to cry in public is a gift from God - don't fight it.

Chuck

 

[Saaby]

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Thinking of you and yours raggie.

 

[raggie33]

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thanks everyone im still up mom is refuseing meds now.and is very confussed.

 

[Greta]

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Rags... Mom needs to be at peace. It might be time to tell her it's ok to go. Sometimes we tend to hang on and not let them go because of our own needs and fears... and that's perfectly normal. But it seems from what you've posted here that she needs to be told that it's ok... and that you'll be ok. You will be ok, Rags. You will always have her in your heart... and you will always feel her warmth. You're a good son Rags... tell her it's ok... and let her be at peace. It is the greatest Christmas gift you could ever give her. We're here for you, my friend... /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grouphug.gif

 

[Wisti]

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Wise words , Sasha .

Raggie , I´m with you and your mom !

 

[mut]

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Sorry to hear of the news. Prayers sent for you and your family.
I will shine a light for you and yours as well.

mut

 

[jayflash]

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/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/frown.gif Prayers said for you and your family. May the Christmas Spirit, in some way, find those who have lost loved ones and brighten their lives a little. It's too bad that Christmas is a melancholy or downright sad season for so many. Thinking of you, ragmeister.

 

[CajunBabe]

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Eddie,
My heart felt prayers go out to you and your family, especially for your mom. I know you will do all you can for your mom.

All my love and prayers,
Lynn

 

[LED-FX]

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Raggie, my thoughts are with your Mum and Yourself, you take care of you and yours now.

Adam

 

[raggie33]

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thanks everyone she is relaxed now gave her morphine like 20 minuets ago,she is sleeping peacefully. im hopeing she will be aleert tomorow enough for xmas. we tryied tonight but she is not there kinda. my dad which is her x hubby and my real dad helped me today. sunday he will be here all day so me and sister can go out for a bit

 

[UncleFester]

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LightChucker said:
Don't be ashamed to cry. I cried and cried and cried when my mom, dad, and grandma died - right out in public, with no shame at all. The ability to cry in public is a gift from God - don't fight it.

Chuck

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Raggs. Chuck is right. Don't be ashamed to cry about your mother.

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(Sasha)Rags... Mom needs to be at peace. It might be time to tell her it's ok to go. Sometimes we tend to hang on and not let them go because of our own needs and fears... and that's perfectly normal. But it seems from what you've posted here that she needs to be told that it's ok... and that you'll be ok. You will be ok, Rags. You will always have her in your heart... and you will always feel her warmth. You're a good son Rags... tell her it's ok... and let her be at peace. It is the greatest Christmas gift you could ever give her. We're here for you, my friend...


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No one could have said this any better than Sasha just did.

My mother passed last spring. One of the worst parts is that I didn't spend enough time with her while it was happening. YOU are lucky enough to have that chance. Cherish it. We're all thinking of you and praying for you and your mother.
Keith

 

[junior]

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Merry Christmas raggie.

GOD BLESS

I havent forgot about you

 

[raggie33]

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i think she is gone,my sister called nurse from hopsice my dad is on way. man i cant deal with stuff like this i wanna go be by my self

 

[Icebreak]

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Peace to her. Peace to you. Peace to your family.

 

[PhotonWrangler]

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/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grouphug.gif Raggie /ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grouphug.gif

Aiming my light towards the heavens...

 

[pedalinbob]

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i missed this thread...thank goodness hospice was involved.

had i known, i could have perhaps given some advice (from a pain specialist with co-workers skilled in hospice), but it sounds like you handled it perfectly, raggie--with love and compassion.

your mom is free, and you helped her through it.
bless you and your family.

Bob

 

[McGizmo]

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Raggie,
Sorry for your loss. The star dust your mom had borrowed while she was here among us is now being returned as will be the cycle for us all. Perhaps if you look in tonights sky you will see a star twinkle.

 

[pedalinbob]

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McGizmo said:
Raggie,
Sorry for your loss. The star dust your mom had borrowed while she was here among us is now being returned as will be the cycle for us all. Perhaps if you look in tonights sky you will see a star twinkle.

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awsome, McGizmo!

Bob